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Old April 18th, 2011, 02:01 PM   #5
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Red face Am I getting too old?

Hi people
This is the 1st time I've posted on a group like this (or any group at all actually)
I am nearly 42 and have been married for 25 years, kids grown, left, etc.
I still have regular sex with hubby but have been friends with a lady for a number of years now and find myself really attracted to her, but I don't know if she finds me attractive in the same way.
About 20 years ago I had a short lived fling with a good friend (at hubbys instigation because it turned him on). Actually it was a 3 in my bed, - with hubby one night and with my friends hubby a couple of nights later.
I will always remember that.
But this friend I have got now is a widow and doesn't seem interested in sex and I relly don't know how to approach her or if I should as she never talks about sex even after I have made some sexual reference after telling a joke.
I'm afraid of approaching her as I don't want her to become my X friend.
Any suggestions out there??
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