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Old September 1st, 2012, 08:14 PM   #1
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Question Confused and not sure what to do next..

It's kind of a long story but I'll try my best to make it short. Basically I knew this guy for a long time and had feelings for him even though I was married and do was he. We lost contact for a few years and one day he emails me saying there is a position open at his company and he's divorced. He wanted to meet for drinks but I felt more comfortable with coffee so we did that and caught up and had a nice time as friends. Then we continued texting and emailing after. He told me he was single but I had a suspicion he had a gf but he always told me no he didn't. I didn't worry about it bc I was married and was not planning on cheating on my husband. Soon our harmless flirting kinda got out of control. We drunk texted each other a few times and things got a little more serious. Well fast forward to now...nothing has happened between us but his gf text me saying she knows about me. She called me and we talked and she has known about me since April. He has been showing her the texts and emails all along. This is just weird! Why would he do that and why would she stay with someone like that??? I have not confronted him about this and he knows she has talked to me but he hasn't contacted me. I feel betrayed. I thought it was just harmless flirting but I guess I didn't consider her feelings. Plus he has insisted up until this point that they are broken up. I am not sure what to do next. I have no intentions of having a relationship with this man and I don't want drama. I do work with him so I willl have to see his Tuesday. I am mad and want to yell at him about it but I don't think that's the best move. I feel awful for what happened.
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Old September 2nd, 2012, 11:56 AM   #2
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Hi Cuppy. If I were you, I'd treat him nicely at work, but no more flirting or texting. You've had enough drama already.
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