Online Friendships - Page 6

rjsfeminist · January 26th, 2010, 01:17 PM

Well said, Wolfie. And welcome, Bellstarny.

Wolf_angel · February 3rd, 2010, 07:46 AM

(((( Rjfeminist )))) thank you!

Have a great day!

rjsfeminist · February 5th, 2010, 07:54 PM

You're welcom, Wolfie. BTW, how are you doing?

Wolf_angel · March 23rd, 2010, 06:41 AM

I am doing better now than before

Hugs

Wolf_angel · March 27th, 2010, 12:06 PM

I simply dont understand. How anyone can say they love you care for you and etc when the minute you vent on other stuff they automattically think its them only them not anyone else. Mind you told them it wasnt them. That you specified who it is! This isnt the first time either. You have known this person for years. Everytime you vent to that person its them you are landblasting about. Its them who is the reason why you are upset. This sounds like limitations doesnt it? I thought friendships dont have limitations. I thought friends were there for you in the good times and the bad times. So while your life is falling apart, you are supposed to fix up everyone else's since they made a mess of it? Forget your obligations to yourself? That the doctors want to give you the cure all pill or for you to take counselling. What the heck? How does this fix up anything let alone keep anyone positive in their outlook on life? Well I am done with all of that. Due to my own health, and life as it is, I have to do things to improve it. I want to be positive and be productive. Not become a hermit in my own home having others take care of me. I may not know all the answers but I will figure it out. I will fix it only with the one who doesnt berate me for venting, being upset, yet listens to help me figure out what I must do and what can wait. Life dont wait for anyone. Life doesnt hand you the answers but maybe helps you with the opportunities there around the corner. So if I have to grab it by the horns and go for the ride of my life by myself, so be it.

What would you do? What do you think? Please let me know for I certainly appreciate it.

Just so you all know I am ever thankful for each and everyone of you. For without you my life would be worse off. Hugs

rjsfeminist · March 27th, 2010, 09:52 PM

(((Wolfie,))) I feel so bad for you...You're going through one heck of a rough time that no one should have to go through.

yash · March 28th, 2010, 04:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Wolf_angel

(((( Rjfeminist )))) thank you!

Have a great day!

hw r u?

yash · March 28th, 2010, 04:46 AM

hw's life

Wolf_angel · March 28th, 2010, 01:10 PM

Hi Yash....I am surviving as best as can be. Welcome to WOW. Most of us have known each other for years. Hence the grays. LOL Check out the message boards and maybe the chats. I know that I wont be around for awhile. Going to head out of town for a few weeks.
Have a great day!

rjsfeminist · March 28th, 2010, 07:21 PM

Wolfie, take care. I think I speak for everyone here that we'll be keeping you in our prayers while you're away.

And welcome, Yash.

crazymomma · March 29th, 2010, 10:28 AM

HI Yash. We look forward to your return Wolf angel. Have a safe trip and relax. YOU have earned it.

pin2jam · May 3rd, 2010, 07:06 AM

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Where is yada is this it? I see mauka and Blaise now where is the other one?

hi,how r u? my self pintu from india

Wolf_angel · May 3rd, 2010, 10:33 AM

Welcome Pintu to WOW! Most of us on here know each other for many years! So please check out the message boards and perhaps a chat!

Have a great day!

February 3rd, 2010, 07:46 AM	#77
Wolf_angel A survivor of chaos Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Where my heart is Posts: 907	(((( Rjfeminist )))) thank you! Have a great day! __________________ May you walk in the shadow of the Great Spirit~To help others is a special gift we can either give or take~The more you give the more you receive~

March 23rd, 2010, 06:41 AM	#79
Wolf_angel A survivor of chaos Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Where my heart is Posts: 907	I am doing better now than before Hugs __________________ May you walk in the shadow of the Great Spirit~To help others is a special gift we can either give or take~The more you give the more you receive~

March 27th, 2010, 12:06 PM	#80
Wolf_angel A survivor of chaos Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Where my heart is Posts: 907	I simply dont understand. How anyone can say they love you care for you and etc when the minute you vent on other stuff they automattically think its them only them not anyone else. Mind you told them it wasnt them. That you specified who it is! This isnt the first time either. You have known this person for years. Everytime you vent to that person its them you are landblasting about. Its them who is the reason why you are upset. This sounds like limitations doesnt it? I thought friendships dont have limitations. I thought friends were there for you in the good times and the bad times. So while your life is falling apart, you are supposed to fix up everyone else's since they made a mess of it? Forget your obligations to yourself? That the doctors want to give you the cure all pill or for you to take counselling. What the heck? How does this fix up anything let alone keep anyone positive in their outlook on life? Well I am done with all of that. Due to my own health, and life as it is, I have to do things to improve it. I want to be positive and be productive. Not become a hermit in my own home having others take care of me. I may not know all the answers but I will figure it out. I will fix it only with the one who doesnt berate me for venting, being upset, yet listens to help me figure out what I must do and what can wait. Life dont wait for anyone. Life doesnt hand you the answers but maybe helps you with the opportunities there around the corner. So if I have to grab it by the horns and go for the ride of my life by myself, so be it. What would you do? What do you think? Please let me know for I certainly appreciate it. Just so you all know I am ever thankful for each and everyone of you. For without you my life would be worse off. Hugs __________________ May you walk in the shadow of the Great Spirit~To help others is a special gift we can either give or take~The more you give the more you receive~

March 28th, 2010, 01:10 PM	#84
Wolf_angel A survivor of chaos Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Where my heart is Posts: 907	Hi Yash....I am surviving as best as can be. Welcome to WOW. Most of us have known each other for years. Hence the grays. LOL Check out the message boards and maybe the chats. I know that I wont be around for awhile. Going to head out of town for a few weeks. Have a great day! __________________ May you walk in the shadow of the Great Spirit~To help others is a special gift we can either give or take~The more you give the more you receive~

March 29th, 2010, 10:28 AM	#86
crazymomma awesome cookie lady Join Date: May 2003 Location: Utica,NY Posts: 1,168	HI Yash. We look forward to your return Wolf angel. Have a safe trip and relax. YOU have earned it. __________________ It feels like home to me. Bonnie Rhatt

January 26th, 2010, 01:17 PM	#76
rjsfeminist Member Join Date: May 2001 Location: west central Florida Posts: 1,124	Well said, Wolfie. And welcome, Bellstarny.

February 5th, 2010, 07:54 PM	#78
rjsfeminist Member Join Date: May 2001 Location: west central Florida Posts: 1,124	You're welcom, Wolfie. BTW, how are you doing?

March 27th, 2010, 09:52 PM	#81
rjsfeminist Member Join Date: May 2001 Location: west central Florida Posts: 1,124	(((Wolfie,))) I feel so bad for you...You're going through one heck of a rough time that no one should have to go through.

March 28th, 2010, 04:46 AM	#83
yash Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 2	hw's life

March 28th, 2010, 07:21 PM	#85
rjsfeminist Member Join Date: May 2001 Location: west central Florida Posts: 1,124	Wolfie, take care. I think I speak for everyone here that we'll be keeping you in our prayers while you're away. And welcome, Yash.

May 3rd, 2010, 10:33 AM	#88
Wolf_angel A survivor of chaos Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Where my heart is Posts: 907	Welcome Pintu to WOW! Most of us on here know each other for many years! So please check out the message boards and perhaps a chat! Have a great day! __________________ May you walk in the shadow of the Great Spirit~To help others is a special gift we can either give or take~The more you give the more you receive~