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Wolf_angel December 22nd, 2012 07:44 AM

Being alone?
We all know what the statistics say about people being alone during the Holidays. What is usually going to happen more often than not. However, if you have reached out as that person so you arent alone, and no one responds at all what do you do?
Well I have many things to do now that He has gone. I have to clean up this "trashy house" cause we all know that did it all by myself. Yeah ok. NOT!
Yet I wonder why not one of my friends who are nearby dont see the writing on the wall.
I know one is more self absorbed in the drama of her life and her daughters. Sad but true.
Another only because they are wanting someone to do their dinner since they have bare necessities. Where as I have just a bit more but not by much. Same said people told me to stay home and keep "the sickness" from their house. After I left a bag of food at their house wasnt allowed in and they sprayed lysol over around their doorstep.
So that is why I have the choices I do which is none.
Ok so be it. Not expected to be anywhere for anyone. Then dont look me up when you have time for me. Dont call to chat. Dont act like I wont forget this either. NO I am not mad per se just hurt for only their things are important but not another's Life.
So should I care you do what you do to make your life a misery yet expect others to rally around you when you cant call, text or leave a voicemail for them?
I do like the #20#26 acts of random kindness spurred by the Conn. shooting masacre. Just really sad not one of my friends that are nearby can or will do anything towards it.

Ok now done venting per se but I wanted to remind all of us to step out of our safety zone. To help another for you may never get the chance again.

So are you doing to do the #20#26 Acts of Random Kindness?

Jennifer23 December 22nd, 2012 06:50 PM

I'm with you, Wolfie! And it's not about your personal situation, but the attitudes of people, whether it happens to be the holiday season or not. Alot of people now don't care about niceness. Whenever someone holds a door open for me I always say "thank you". Thank you and you're welcome are so easy to say and yet not everyone does. I suppose they are living in their own worlds where common courtesy doesn't exist.

Wolf_angel December 23rd, 2012 01:25 PM

Or having a bad day! LOL But tis ok we remember those things and that is what matters to us! Merry Christmas! Hugs

PriscillaMS January 3rd, 2013 01:14 PM

I just saw these posts so pardon the tardy response. But I do agree.

There are no limits to personal behavior and the arcane concepts of decency, honor and integrity are from a bygone era.

Wolf_angel January 5th, 2013 10:08 AM

Yes although it does show up rarely but man is that awesome when it does? Hugs

PriscillaMS January 7th, 2013 12:49 PM

Wolf Angel 1, Priscilla 0

Wolf_angel January 9th, 2013 08:58 AM

Tis not a competition Priscilla it just is great when the rarity does show up. Making such a delightful surprise when it does. To realize all that we have gone thru to arrive where we are at that time to be blessed by the surprise.

Btw I got laid off yesterday so back to the drawing board. LOL Have a great day!:) Hugs

Jennifer23 January 9th, 2013 10:55 PM

Last week someone let me out when traffic was backed up. I gave him a big wave and he waved back. Little gestures can mean alot.

Wolf_angel January 10th, 2013 12:55 AM

I agree. Hugs sweetie!

PriscillaMS January 10th, 2013 10:14 AM

Wolf you are right, not a competition. Hard to change a personality though.

Wolf_angel January 10th, 2013 10:56 AM

No worries Priscilla!

Now here is something I could use some opinions on ok?
If a person cheats i.e. on significant other Who's fault is it when that person does?
IS it the person who set up the two to meet as introductions?
Is it the person that the cheater does it with?
Or is it the person who had ultimate choice and cheated on their significant other?

Thank you! Hugs

Elusive Unicorn January 10th, 2013 07:20 PM

I think the last one the key word is choice the one who got cheated on had no choice in it.

crazymomma January 11th, 2013 09:53 PM

sound thinking daughter.

Wolf_angel January 12th, 2013 10:48 PM

Yes I agree and it was me who had no choice. :(

crazymomma January 13th, 2013 08:52 PM

AWWW (((((((((((Wolfie))))))))))) We loveb you anyway! so come here and yell and scream and let it all one. We will still love you anyway! That's cause wes friends and thats what wes do.:D

Wolf_angel January 14th, 2013 10:44 AM

Yes I know and so humbled and honored by it. That is one reason I come here. I know I am not perfect yet I still am deserving of a good man, love and respect. As well as commitment of 100 %. Hence I am going to be leaving him behind when I do move on. I will make sure that he knows all the bridges he had are burnt.
But I know I love all of you....when you are down I hope to make you laugh like you do for me. That is one of the great parts of being a part of WOW! We dont judge we just do what we can, even by words alone and that my beloved friends is what makes the difference.
Hugs to all
((((((((((( Crazymomma)))))))))))))))))))))

Jennifer23 June 24th, 2013 06:56 PM


Wolf_angel November 21st, 2014 07:15 PM

I did it! I did move on. Left lots of my stuff but hope to get it soon. Hugs

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