fantasy of ex

[eclectic]

Does anyone else fantasise about any exes? I have a particular ex, a "bad boy" - or rather older man - whom I had a passionate affair with for a couple of years. I am now deeply in love with a wonderful honest friend who I am marrying... he is sexy and skilled in the bedroom, but doesn't have the same power to overwhelm me that my former lust-object had. Occasionally I find myself remembering the heat of being with the ex, and finding that I have to indulge in a little fantasy to feel satisfied. Has anyone else had to choose between lust and love (to an extent)?