Is sex.....?

[patricia67]

Originally Posted by unknown-ml

well patricia, there is a book you need to read, its called the Holy Bible but before you do that you need to get on your knees and ask God (not the big guy) to save you.

Dear Unknown,

I read the Holy Bible, it's in my nightstand, and not just for fun I am a Catholic. God made us to love others and a piece of paper doesn't have anything to do with that. It's the commitment we make to eachother in our hearts. I'm sure our God made the miracle happen of me meeting my partner (for over 20 years!), for us to have our beautiful daughters, for being healthy and enjoying our lives together. It's the priest that talk of sin, that took out all parts in the Holy Bible of miracles and angels or other preforming them! This has been done to keep control over people just to have power opver them.

But you're question puzzled me ..... Why in the world as a strong believer of not be with someone without being married ( in your eyes a sin since you told me to get on my knees and pray to be saved!) would you ask the world on this forum; DOES FORST TIME SEX HURT? It shouldn't be of any of your interest!!!! And the answer will be different every time. Some have pain others don't .....

Having said that (and it's the last I will say about it!) I wish you all the best. I'm sure there a special person for you somewhere out there that's waiting for you. To be with you in way you want them to be be according to your believes. Be happy!!!

Patricia

[unknown-ml]

patricia, i used to believe that there was someone for everyone, i no longer believe that. since i have never had sex, IF i ever do the first time will hurt.