Is love real or make believe? - Page 7

unknown-ml · July 15th, 2011, 10:38 AM

thank you irish eyes, i know that sex and love is not the same thing. sex is lust and has nothing to do with love. i have never had love in my life and probably never will. i am too ugly for men, they dont want a relationship with me. the only way they will have me is to have sex with them. if that is all they want they need to go out and get themselves a whore. i am soooo tired of their games. for you love is real, for me it is make believe, i have never experienced it and never will.

Jennifer23 · July 15th, 2011, 08:38 PM

Unknown, you've convinced me. You've repeated it so often, that I think that you're right - you never will experience it. So maybe you should just go on with your life, and not look for a possibilty of love. Just live day to day, and be glad that bad things don't happen to you.

IRISH_EYES_99 · July 15th, 2011, 11:06 PM

Good luck with your life Unknown. If one convinces themself that they are not worth being loved.. refuses to get help to find out why they feel this way. I feel so sorry for you. Again we are not dr's, therapists, we are willing to share our thoughts with you. You are the only one who can take the steps to get help. Good luck wishing you the best.

Jennifer23 thank you & sistergirl , and all who have attempted to help. Evidently help is not really wanted there. So good luck to you. Keep up your good work, your good attitude. All we can do now is wish Unknown the best & pray she finds her way.

Jennifer23 · July 15th, 2011, 11:21 PM

I agree, Irish. I really do hope that she comes out of her "destiny", but it's up to her; just like it's up to the rest of us that have problems that we have to deal with. So, unknown, I'm sorry that I was harsh with you, but like Irish said, we're not doctors. You wanted advice, and we gave it to you. Maybe it's time to heal yourself.

sistergirl · July 15th, 2011, 11:32 PM

Irish, thank you. I believe strongly that we get back what we give. We have to make a conscious effort if we want respect returned... and so life should not be treated as a one way street.

Jennifer23 · July 15th, 2011, 11:48 PM

Well said, Sister.

unknown-ml · July 16th, 2011, 12:52 AM

ok bye too all. my next step is suicide. so enjoy what is left of your life.

IRISH_EYES_99 · July 16th, 2011, 07:00 AM

UNKNOWN-MI GET HELP... IF YOU ARE THINKING SUICIDE CALL THE 800 SUICIDE line in your area. WE can't help you. Don't toss the blame on us. As Jennifer, Sistergirl, & I have told you get help in real life. Get a therapist. Call the 800 suicide help line.
TAKE TIME TO GET YOUSELF HELP. GET YOURSELF HELP! GET YOURSELF HELP. We can not do that for you. Again Good luck. Make the right decision.. that is never suicide.

sistergirl · July 16th, 2011, 05:57 PM

Irish, this chick is a phony....this is a spammer, trust me. Because if she were for real she would be seeking help in the real world and not wasting time on some forum. Sorry, this is my gut feeling. She/he wants one thing on this forum...to get our attention no matter how. I am not biting...Bye ML.

sistergirl · July 16th, 2011, 06:00 PM

p.s. I have dealt with people like this on another forum a long time ago and they are called manipulators, bullies....not worth my time and effort.

If this person was for real they would be appreciative at the very least....notice...zero appreciation and constant demising of our efforts.

Jennifer23 · July 16th, 2011, 07:54 PM

Girls, I agree with Sister. You reach a point where you say what the hell is going on here? But Unknown, before you do yourself in, get back to us to let us know how you're going to do it.

IRISH_EYES_99 · July 16th, 2011, 08:51 PM

You are both right. I've met these people before. However I want anyone reading this to know.. Suicide is never the answer. Getting help is the only ans that works.

Yes, I absolutely noticed Unknown-mi played it to the hilt. What a pity. We have seen it before in chat. That person was found out * reported.

Once again sistergirl & Jennifer you are very observant, helpful & caring. Thank you for that. Don't let someone of this caliber change you.

**Suicide is never the answer. Getting help is the only ans that works.**

sistergirl · July 16th, 2011, 09:25 PM

Hi Irish, people like that cannot change who I am. I am pretty well grounded. She should be reported.

Ladylovely · July 18th, 2011, 01:07 PM

Hello Unknown,
As a matter of fact I never dated in high school I was always the friend to everyone. Then I was rapped in College so I tried to find love and still haven't had anyone who cares. However we can't down ourselves because men want confident women it makes them feel uncomfortable when women put themselves down! And I wasn't trying to preach to you or at you unlike Gaibella said, I'm just sharing what I've been taught! And. Trying to encourage you, but ultimately the decision is yours! I hope you find real happiness and joy and no it won't come from a man or person, because we as human beings fail. Learn to love God and yourself and watch a door will open and the knight will come charging! Luv ya and be blessed in spite of it all! U are still beautiful I don't care what u say! LoL

July 15th, 2011, 11:06 PM	#93
IRISH_EYES_99 Member Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: in the state of confusion :) Posts: 3,524	Good luck with your life Unknown. If one convinces themself that they are not worth being loved.. refuses to get help to find out why they feel this way. I feel so sorry for you. Again we are not dr's, therapists, we are willing to share our thoughts with you. You are the only one who can take the steps to get help. Good luck wishing you the best. Jennifer23 thank you & sistergirl , and all who have attempted to help. Evidently help is not really wanted there. So good luck to you. Keep up your good work, your good attitude. All we can do now is wish Unknown the best & pray she finds her way. __________________ Smiles are contagious. It's ok to pass them on. *

July 16th, 2011, 07:00 AM	#98
IRISH_EYES_99 Member Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: in the state of confusion :) Posts: 3,524	UNKNOWN-MI GET HELP... IF YOU ARE THINKING SUICIDE CALL THE 800 SUICIDE line in your area. WE can't help you. Don't toss the blame on us. As Jennifer, Sistergirl, & I have told you get help in real life. Get a therapist. Call the 800 suicide help line. TAKE TIME TO GET YOUSELF HELP. GET YOURSELF HELP! GET YOURSELF HELP. We can not do that for you. Again Good luck. Make the right decision.. that is never suicide. __________________ Smiles are contagious. It's ok to pass them on. *

July 16th, 2011, 08:51 PM	#102
IRISH_EYES_99 Member Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: in the state of confusion :) Posts: 3,524	You are both right. I've met these people before. However I want anyone reading this to know.. Suicide is never the answer. Getting help is the only ans that works. Yes, I absolutely noticed Unknown-mi played it to the hilt. What a pity. We have seen it before in chat. That person was found out * reported. Once again sistergirl & Jennifer you are very observant, helpful & caring. Thank you for that. Don't let someone of this caliber change you. Suicide is never the answer. Getting help is the only ans that works. __________________ Smiles are contagious. It's ok to pass them on. *

July 15th, 2011, 10:38 AM	#91
unknown-ml Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 71	thank you irish eyes, i know that sex and love is not the same thing. sex is lust and has nothing to do with love. i have never had love in my life and probably never will. i am too ugly for men, they dont want a relationship with me. the only way they will have me is to have sex with them. if that is all they want they need to go out and get themselves a whore. i am soooo tired of their games. for you love is real, for me it is make believe, i have never experienced it and never will.

July 15th, 2011, 08:38 PM	#92
Jennifer23 Jennifer23 Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,187	Unknown, you've convinced me. You've repeated it so often, that I think that you're right - you never will experience it. So maybe you should just go on with your life, and not look for a possibilty of love. Just live day to day, and be glad that bad things don't happen to you.

July 15th, 2011, 11:21 PM	#94
Jennifer23 Jennifer23 Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,187	I agree, Irish. I really do hope that she comes out of her "destiny", but it's up to her; just like it's up to the rest of us that have problems that we have to deal with. So, unknown, I'm sorry that I was harsh with you, but like Irish said, we're not doctors. You wanted advice, and we gave it to you. Maybe it's time to heal yourself.

July 15th, 2011, 11:32 PM	#95
sistergirl Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 648	Irish, thank you. I believe strongly that we get back what we give. We have to make a conscious effort if we want respect returned... and so life should not be treated as a one way street.

July 15th, 2011, 11:48 PM	#96
Jennifer23 Jennifer23 Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,187	Well said, Sister.

July 16th, 2011, 12:52 AM	#97
unknown-ml Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 71	ok bye too all. my next step is suicide. so enjoy what is left of your life.

July 16th, 2011, 05:57 PM	#99
sistergirl Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 648	Irish, this chick is a phony....this is a spammer, trust me. Because if she were for real she would be seeking help in the real world and not wasting time on some forum. Sorry, this is my gut feeling. She/he wants one thing on this forum...to get our attention no matter how. I am not biting...Bye ML.

July 16th, 2011, 06:00 PM	#100
sistergirl Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 648	p.s. I have dealt with people like this on another forum a long time ago and they are called manipulators, bullies....not worth my time and effort. If this person was for real they would be appreciative at the very least....notice...zero appreciation and constant demising of our efforts.

July 16th, 2011, 07:54 PM	#101
Jennifer23 Jennifer23 Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,187	Girls, I agree with Sister. You reach a point where you say what the hell is going on here? But Unknown, before you do yourself in, get back to us to let us know how you're going to do it.

July 16th, 2011, 09:25 PM	#103
sistergirl Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 648	Hi Irish, people like that cannot change who I am. I am pretty well grounded. She should be reported.

July 18th, 2011, 01:07 PM	#104
Ladylovely Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: USA Posts: 4	Hello Unknown, As a matter of fact I never dated in high school I was always the friend to everyone. Then I was rapped in College so I tried to find love and still haven't had anyone who cares. However we can't down ourselves because men want confident women it makes them feel uncomfortable when women put themselves down! And I wasn't trying to preach to you or at you unlike Gaibella said, I'm just sharing what I've been taught! And. Trying to encourage you, but ultimately the decision is yours! I hope you find real happiness and joy and no it won't come from a man or person, because we as human beings fail. Learn to love God and yourself and watch a door will open and the knight will come charging! Luv ya and be blessed in spite of it all! U are still beautiful I don't care what u say! LoL