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August 6th, 2011, 11:34 PM
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New member with issues
Hello,
I am new to this site, but have dealt with depression my whole life. But tonight, I have had enough. I a half hour it will be my birthday, but I am spending it doing nothing. My husband, well, that's a whole other post. So, I have had enough! Tomorrow, I will celebrate alone, but I just have to get thru tonight without feeling sorry for myself. I am a nurse & have spent my life taking care of everyone, now I am going to take care of myself! |
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August 7th, 2011, 08:07 AM
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A survivor of chaos
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well that is what I am constantly being told. Whereas I grew up taking care of everyone! Now those same people who should be helping me or whatever dont. They get hissy fits for when I do take care of me. Well guess what? They can go suck some lemons. I have to take care of me for no one else has my dreams and wishes to accomplish. Hence Yes take care of you. Go out and have some fun. Do something you wanted to do but havent for whatever reason. Its good to put yourself first. This way you can handle whatever is thrown your way. Hope this helps as it was meant too. Hugs
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August 7th, 2011, 03:05 PM
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Jennifer23
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Yeah, I agree with Wolfie.
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August 25th, 2011, 10:51 PM
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Veronica, how are you doing? And a belated Happy Birthday!
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August 26th, 2011, 08:33 AM
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A survivor of chaos
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(((((Veronica)))))) Happy Belated Birthday!
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August 30th, 2011, 01:03 PM
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Veronica hope you check back in with us. Let us know how you are doing.
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September 6th, 2011, 01:24 AM
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Tiazoemom
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I hope you were able to spend your birthday in the way you wanted. I know its hard when you are depressed. It seems to immobilize you so that you cant find the energy to make things better even though you need to change things for yourself. Im going through a depression myself and at this point i cant see any light at the end of the tunnel. My husband doesnt love me.We have just retired, I had such plans for the rest of our lives but he has changed so much. He is no longer interested in the future.He is no longer interested in me but he doesnt want to let me go either. Its a horrible situation. I am here in this same town with no friends or family. i dont think i have ever felt so alone.
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September 6th, 2011, 08:16 AM
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A survivor of chaos
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(((( Tiazoemom )))) I know how you feel. Yet despite that you reach out towards another. Something I do as well. For it helps me feel great helping another. Sorry about your situation but I am in the same boat almost. So anytime feel free to post. It does help and sometimes the silliest of things makes you smile. Hugs again
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September 11th, 2011, 07:50 AM
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i know how u feel
honey i think men r weird. I broke my leg 2 days b4 my bday n he didnt give a shit n then when i went in2 his history account which my son hakt i found out hd was havn an affair n lookn at porn n had 3 email address's so i dont trust any1 now. Ask him what he wants from u n tell him what u need n if he doesnt reply then go mad. He should luv u n treat u rite. Men r weird i think n hard 2 read.
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September 11th, 2011, 08:36 AM
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A survivor of chaos
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Yes but men say the same about women. LOL I know funny! Yet now realized I am legally married, he lives in the same house with me, but do we have a relationship? Other than being his housecleaner, accountant, and driver, we dont. I am so done. For in his status on Facebook he is in a relationship with me, where as I have it I am married. Now I have blocked him from seeing my page. LOL Great thing blocks are. As well as he cant access any of my pages or websites I go to. Smart thing about deleting history on his lap top. Which I do everytime I leave it i.e. to go to the bathroom or before shutting it down. No I am not cheating or whatever just tired of the status quo. So hopefully tomorrow is a new start for me. Have a great day!
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September 11th, 2011, 05:07 PM
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Wolf, what keeps you there? it must be so difficult.
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September 12th, 2011, 07:10 AM
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A survivor of chaos
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For now its many things but the basic is I dont have a job where I have money to support myself. Nor am I leaving things in this house some from my Mother who has passed away. Yet as difficult as it may be, I know one day when he thinks the status quo is what he has wanted will change in a blink of an eye. For now I have other things to do since tonight is going to be my first night at college in many years. That is of course its open, due to the flooding around our area. Yet I will be strong grab my boot straps and carry on. Tis what women do. Have a great day!
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September 12th, 2011, 01:22 PM
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Well onward and upward! Sounds like you have your head together and a plan. Best of luck!! Remember to take care of your health in the mean time.
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September 12th, 2011, 07:20 PM
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Wolf_Angel you have a lot of people who are backing you up on what you need to do. Please listen. You've been going though this for a long time. Hope the college course helps out, hope you are playing attention to your health issues. If you don't take the time to make yourself better then it won't matter about school.
You know we care about you. If we didn't we wouldn't take the time to offer suggestions to you. Take care of you.
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September 13th, 2011, 10:12 AM
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A survivor of chaos
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Yes IRISH I will! For that is part of the overall plan! To move forward to succeed and become better in all things mainly my health and diabetes. LOL Which I know takes time but I am a working in progress kind of person. I have been going thru this for a long time. Yet slowly and surely it will change. For I will make those changes. LOL Leave the rest behind but none of you! Hugs
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