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Wolf_angel · September 26th, 2011, 09:26 AM

Well dont be afraid to try the ideas suggested to you. Maybe you need to strike a balance from what you were to who you are now. Yet counselling would help. The important thing is to find out what makes you happy. Hope this helps as it was meant too. Have a great day!

Wolf_angel · November 5th, 2011, 01:58 PM

Ok just to let you know that the husband has moved out, asked for a divorce. Yet feeling sad and depressed crying for the simplicity of what was promised and not kept by him. Then also for my youngest son and oldest grandson making me cry for the love and care they have said and shown me today.

doe63 · November 5th, 2011, 05:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Wolf_angel

Ok just to let you know that the husband has moved out, asked for a divorce. Yet feeling sad and depressed crying for the simplicity of what was promised and not kept by him. Then also for my youngest son and oldest grandson making me cry for the love and care they have said and shown me today.

I'm so sorry to hear that Wolf Angel. I hope things work out well for you. Everything happens for a reason, maybe there's something better out there for you, but I can certainly understand the feeling of the loss of your dreams. Hang in there.

Wolf_angel · November 7th, 2011, 12:17 PM

Thank you doe hugs. Working on things to have a better life. Will keep all of you updated.

confusedforever · December 21st, 2011, 02:45 AM

Like Doe said, everything happens for a reason, I believe everything happens for a good reason. God has planned everything for us and he always thinks what's best. Just believe in yourself, do thinks you like and be strong. Good luck Wolf Angel...

Wolf_angel · December 22nd, 2011, 08:31 AM

Thank you confusedforever however just found out I have no support whatsoever for others believe that it will "cost" them because I will "forget" my promise. Not happening. Also have to get hand surgery on the left hand to the ganglion cyst in my hand. Ugh all this while I try to get a job doing phlebotomist. Merry Christmas

confusedforever · December 26th, 2011, 01:56 AM

Don't lose hope Wolf Angel. After darkness there is always light. Good luck with your surgery and hope you get well soon. Merry Christmas.

Wolf_angel · December 26th, 2011, 10:09 AM

Thank you confusedforever...Merry Christmas..

FreeMarkCosmetics · December 26th, 2011, 03:37 PM

basically this started happening to me when i got into a relationship i use to be to carefree and happy then i got into almost 3 year relationship with someone who just brought me to my worst point in my life there was love and we wanted it to work but it just did not what i have done to move along is just try to take day by day and i have try to reconnect with my old self again and i am having fun a lot of fun i am being my old self even tough i feel like i am 15 again sometimes i am 28 now but its ok i lost 3 years almost 4 so i guess i got stopped ion my tracks so now i am making up for it its really hard to just let go and move on but it is what it is just reconnect with your old self and go back to things YOU liked doing and think about yourself the real you and go on with life everything else will fall in place don't try to rush things if it was meant to be it was meant to be its hard dont get me wrong but its just something you have to do

Wolf_angel · December 27th, 2011, 09:53 AM

Thank you FreeMarkCosmetics sounds like a good plan! Have a great day!

September 26th, 2011, 09:26 AM	#16
Wolf_angel A survivor of chaos Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Where my heart is Posts: 3,147	Well dont be afraid to try the ideas suggested to you. Maybe you need to strike a balance from what you were to who you are now. Yet counselling would help. The important thing is to find out what makes you happy. Hope this helps as it was meant too. Have a great day! __________________ May you walk in the shadow of the Great Spirit~To help others is a special gift we can either give or take~The more you give the more you receive~

November 5th, 2011, 01:58 PM	#17
Wolf_angel A survivor of chaos Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Where my heart is Posts: 3,147	Ok just to let you know that the husband has moved out, asked for a divorce. Yet feeling sad and depressed crying for the simplicity of what was promised and not kept by him. Then also for my youngest son and oldest grandson making me cry for the love and care they have said and shown me today. __________________ May you walk in the shadow of the Great Spirit~To help others is a special gift we can either give or take~The more you give the more you receive~

November 7th, 2011, 12:17 PM	#19
Wolf_angel A survivor of chaos Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Where my heart is Posts: 3,147	Thank you doe hugs. Working on things to have a better life. Will keep all of you updated. __________________ May you walk in the shadow of the Great Spirit~To help others is a special gift we can either give or take~The more you give the more you receive~

December 22nd, 2011, 08:31 AM	#21
Wolf_angel A survivor of chaos Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Where my heart is Posts: 3,147	Thank you confusedforever however just found out I have no support whatsoever for others believe that it will "cost" them because I will "forget" my promise. Not happening. Also have to get hand surgery on the left hand to the ganglion cyst in my hand. Ugh all this while I try to get a job doing phlebotomist. Merry Christmas __________________ May you walk in the shadow of the Great Spirit~To help others is a special gift we can either give or take~The more you give the more you receive~

December 26th, 2011, 10:09 AM	#23
Wolf_angel A survivor of chaos Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Where my heart is Posts: 3,147	Thank you confusedforever...Merry Christmas.. __________________ May you walk in the shadow of the Great Spirit~To help others is a special gift we can either give or take~The more you give the more you receive~

December 21st, 2011, 02:45 AM	#20
confusedforever Confused Forever Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: web Posts: 14	Like Doe said, everything happens for a reason, I believe everything happens for a good reason. God has planned everything for us and he always thinks what's best. Just believe in yourself, do thinks you like and be strong. Good luck Wolf Angel...

December 26th, 2011, 01:56 AM	#22
confusedforever Confused Forever Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: web Posts: 14	Don't lose hope Wolf Angel. After darkness there is always light. Good luck with your surgery and hope you get well soon. Merry Christmas.

December 26th, 2011, 03:37 PM	#24
FreeMarkCosmetics FreeMarkCosmetics Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: hialeah,fl Posts: 3	i know what you mean basically this started happening to me when i got into a relationship i use to be to carefree and happy then i got into almost 3 year relationship with someone who just brought me to my worst point in my life there was love and we wanted it to work but it just did not what i have done to move along is just try to take day by day and i have try to reconnect with my old self again and i am having fun a lot of fun i am being my old self even tough i feel like i am 15 again sometimes i am 28 now but its ok i lost 3 years almost 4 so i guess i got stopped ion my tracks so now i am making up for it its really hard to just let go and move on but it is what it is just reconnect with your old self and go back to things YOU liked doing and think about yourself the real you and go on with life everything else will fall in place don't try to rush things if it was meant to be it was meant to be its hard dont get me wrong but its just something you have to do

December 27th, 2011, 09:53 AM	#25
Wolf_angel A survivor of chaos Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Where my heart is Posts: 3,147	Thank you FreeMarkCosmetics sounds like a good plan! Have a great day! __________________ May you walk in the shadow of the Great Spirit~To help others is a special gift we can either give or take~The more you give the more you receive~