Nudity

September 27th, 2010, 01:18 PM

I am a grandma of 48 and I have a son in law who constantly does provocative things to me. He has several times showed me his penis and even touched me with his penis for a second when it was hard. What should I do.

GiaBella · November 5th, 2010, 12:12 PM

With the information given what I believe you should do is first of all to not laugh it off as if it's a harmless act. If he's 12 years or younger he's probably seeing it being done on TV, school or at home. If he's a teenager then you need to not only think of what he's doing to you but what he can be doing to other females and how they would feel. You need to sit down with him and tell him what he's doing isn't funny and that it's disrespectful. Find out the source of this inappropriate behaviour and stop it before it gets worse. Yes, this can be awkward to discuss, but you'll regret not doing something about it in the future.

Tammy · November 16th, 2010, 12:47 PM

Son-in-law implies marriage, which suggests it's an adult engaging in this behavior, not a child or a teen.

Would you accept that behavior from any other adult male you have contact with? Think about what you would do if the grocery checker or the bank teller engaged in the same behavior, then do exactly that.

You deserve more respect and so does your child.

Wolf_angel · November 18th, 2010, 02:59 PM

Totally agree with Tammy!

rjsfeminist · November 20th, 2010, 05:32 PM

I so agreed with Tammy, too. This is a totally inappropriate action on his part.

moniker · February 11th, 2011, 09:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tammy

Son-in-law implies marriage, which suggests it's an adult engaging in this behavior, not a child or a teen.

Would you accept that behavior from any other adult male you have contact with? Think about what you would do if the grocery checker or the bank teller engaged in the same behavior, then do exactly that.

You deserve more respect and so does your child.

I agree. If he was not your son-in-law, you would probably break his penis off as evidence to take to the nearest police station! That's what you need to do. You may think you're sparing your daughter and your family a problem, but you're only enabling it.

tbjtt · February 8th, 2012, 12:39 AM

Ask a nurse. She know what to do. Lets put it like this: a swift strike of the penis will make it no longer useable.

Wolf_angel · February 8th, 2012, 05:45 AM

Yes but it can also accidentally kill a man. Found that out when I was a kid.

doe63 · February 20th, 2012, 10:49 PM

If he's doing that to you, then he is also acting inapproprately with other women. Your daughter deserves better than that. Sorry, to me that's just perverted. He should be looking at you like he would his own mother. Definitely tell him you don't appreciate it. I'd probably slap him so hard and leave finger marks, that he'd have a hard time explaining to his wife why he has a handprint on his face.

September 27th, 2010, 01:18 PM	#1
southbunn Guest Posts: n/a	Nudity I am a grandma of 48 and I have a son in law who constantly does provocative things to me. He has several times showed me his penis and even touched me with his penis for a second when it was hard. What should I do.

November 18th, 2010, 02:59 PM	#4
Wolf_angel A survivor of chaos Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Where my heart is Posts: 3,147	Totally agree with Tammy! __________________ May you walk in the shadow of the Great Spirit~To help others is a special gift we can either give or take~The more you give the more you receive~

February 8th, 2012, 05:45 AM	#8
Wolf_angel A survivor of chaos Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Where my heart is Posts: 3,147	Yes but it can also accidentally kill a man. Found that out when I was a kid. __________________ May you walk in the shadow of the Great Spirit~To help others is a special gift we can either give or take~The more you give the more you receive~

November 5th, 2010, 12:12 PM	#2
GiaBella Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 5	With the information given what I believe you should do is first of all to not laugh it off as if it's a harmless act. If he's 12 years or younger he's probably seeing it being done on TV, school or at home. If he's a teenager then you need to not only think of what he's doing to you but what he can be doing to other females and how they would feel. You need to sit down with him and tell him what he's doing isn't funny and that it's disrespectful. Find out the source of this inappropriate behaviour and stop it before it gets worse. Yes, this can be awkward to discuss, but you'll regret not doing something about it in the future.

November 16th, 2010, 12:47 PM	#3
Tammy Member Join Date: Feb 2001 Posts: 143	Son-in-law implies marriage, which suggests it's an adult engaging in this behavior, not a child or a teen. Would you accept that behavior from any other adult male you have contact with? Think about what you would do if the grocery checker or the bank teller engaged in the same behavior, then do exactly that. You deserve more respect and so does your child.

November 20th, 2010, 05:32 PM	#5
rjsfeminist Member Join Date: May 2001 Location: west central Florida Posts: 1,564	I so agreed with Tammy, too. This is a totally inappropriate action on his part.

February 8th, 2012, 12:39 AM	#7
tbjtt Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 2	Ask a nurse. She know what to do. Lets put it like this: a swift strike of the penis will make it no longer useable.

February 20th, 2012, 10:49 PM	#9
doe63 Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 16	If he's doing that to you, then he is also acting inapproprately with other women. Your daughter deserves better than that. Sorry, to me that's just perverted. He should be looking at you like he would his own mother. Definitely tell him you don't appreciate it. I'd probably slap him so hard and leave finger marks, that he'd have a hard time explaining to his wife why he has a handprint on his face.