I love my husband but s/t fantasize about women together!

mehappy · August 29th, 2012, 06:04 PM

I love my husband. We have been married for a little under ten years. I find him attractive and love to be with him (physically and every other way too)
But I will admit that one time I came across a show that had two women together in a sex scene and I cant stop fantasizing about that and what that would feel like. I have now taken to looking for such things to watch, women with women just to get aroused sometimes. Is that wrong of me?
I also sometimes have dreams where I am being intimate with a woman.
I wanted to know what others thought, if this means that I have lesbian tendencies or just that I enjoy watching women with women even though I love being intimate with my husband.
(I hope this post makes sense)

robotkitty · September 1st, 2012, 12:03 AM

chill.
There is nothing wrong with you. Coming from someone who has been with men and women, love is love and sex is sex. You have a fantasy. There is nothing wrong with that.

misspantiepink · August 18th, 2013, 11:38 AM

Hi Mehappy
I agree with robotkitty, they are fantasies or lustfull thoughts. Nothing to worry about, unless you know the woman/women.
I had these kind of feelings towards my very attractive lady doctor.
When i used to visit her I would take a lot of time to look my most attractive, even with wearing very lacey panties and bra, stockings etc. I used to love stripping down for her for my check ups. She also used to respond whilst wearing those surgical gloves which if i admit it used to get me going. As you can imagine this couldn't go on as I love my fella and the only solution was to change my doctor. But it got me to thinking that if i was not in a relationship i would of been very tempted to be with her.
So i must have lesbian/bi-sexual feelings which is fairly normal and healthy for us women of the 21st century no?

Jennifer23 · June 6th, 2014, 10:35 PM

August 29th, 2012, 06:04 PM	#1
mehappy Member Join Date: Aug 2012 Posts: 1	I love my husband but s/t fantasize about women together! I love my husband. We have been married for a little under ten years. I find him attractive and love to be with him (physically and every other way too) But I will admit that one time I came across a show that had two women together in a sex scene and I cant stop fantasizing about that and what that would feel like. I have now taken to looking for such things to watch, women with women just to get aroused sometimes. Is that wrong of me? I also sometimes have dreams where I am being intimate with a woman. I wanted to know what others thought, if this means that I have lesbian tendencies or just that I enjoy watching women with women even though I love being intimate with my husband. (I hope this post makes sense)

June 6th, 2014, 10:35 PM	#4
Jennifer23 Jennifer23 Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,187	Hi.

September 1st, 2012, 12:03 AM	#2
robotkitty Member Join Date: Aug 2012 Posts: 2	chill. There is nothing wrong with you. Coming from someone who has been with men and women, love is love and sex is sex. You have a fantasy. There is nothing wrong with that.

August 18th, 2013, 11:38 AM	#3
misspantiepink Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: London Posts: 4	Hi Mehappy I agree with robotkitty, they are fantasies or lustfull thoughts. Nothing to worry about, unless you know the woman/women. I had these kind of feelings towards my very attractive lady doctor. When i used to visit her I would take a lot of time to look my most attractive, even with wearing very lacey panties and bra, stockings etc. I used to love stripping down for her for my check ups. She also used to respond whilst wearing those surgical gloves which if i admit it used to get me going. As you can imagine this couldn't go on as I love my fella and the only solution was to change my doctor. But it got me to thinking that if i was not in a relationship i would of been very tempted to be with her. So i must have lesbian/bi-sexual feelings which is fairly normal and healthy for us women of the 21st century no?