What turns you on???? - Page 2

lilithdelmonte · February 27th, 2004, 05:45 PM

When he looks me in the eyes and tells me how sexy and desirable I am to him.

MintyFemme2 · February 28th, 2004, 12:24 PM

Well I might as well jump in. Flowers for no reason... if I have to stare at the flowers or hit my partner over the head and drag her wallet out of her pocket to pay for them that don't count

If there is a man reading this to get turned on he picked the wrong post

Psst Tammy I though catgirl meant she seeing a man get excited over a "honey do" list

Raine · April 14th, 2004, 06:47 PM

Laying my head on his shoulder, or vice versa.
Holding hands across the table.
Him holding me when I'm sleeping, or just sitting on the couch together watching TV.
Him braiding/brushing/washing my hair for me.
Being able to fit in my "skinny" clothes & feeling all sexy.

brede · April 15th, 2004, 11:43 AM

I needed time to think about this one! LOL! Hmmm, what does that say about me?

The biggest turn on for me is loving care, compassion and intellect. To me love making starts in the morning when he makes coffee and brings it to me. I am very lucky to have a SO that is constantly mindful of the little things. I am so very spoiled!

Physically? Gregrr's total comfort of being in his body. He's a nudist at heart, so I always see him in various stages of nakedness. And, when he gently touches me.... well, I am his.

When I gained so much weight (a new experience for me), I did not feel sexy at all. He was very reassuring and said that he wasn't making love to a body. He was making love with the person that I am.

He's a keeper!

LiamFan! · April 15th, 2004, 04:32 PM

Sure sounds like it, brede!

I think if I shared in this folder, it would scare most of my constituency.

Oh wait...I don't have a constituency.

IRISH_EYES_99 · April 15th, 2004, 07:18 PM

rofl LiamFan

Oh! Come on share

brede · April 16th, 2004, 04:12 PM

Since you don't have a constiuency, you really should share LiamFan!!

Savannah · April 16th, 2004, 07:13 PM

Confidence turns me on.
many men like the " idea" of a strong, independent woman, but in reality they are running scared.
so a man that has confidence and doesn't feel threatened by it is a huge turn on for me

brede · April 17th, 2004, 06:11 PM

As an old activist, I agree about confidence. Gregrr and I have been together for years and we reversed roles for 8 years. Since I have my MA, I found a better paying job with benefits. He was not bothered about it at all and would even do research for me. He would also come to my office and volunteer his time and expertise to fix things up and do things that supported the entire agency.

janni2525 · December 21st, 2005, 12:57 AM

Basically what I find that turns me on is watching 2 women kissing. I mean passionately kissing each other. Not like in the porn movies. I mean that emotions show through the act of kissing. There are fake kisses and there are those look at us kisses, but the real kisses are those that show like they are actually flying standing up. I like that. By the way I'm Gay and this is why I'm saying this. So far these message boards are great. I'm glad I came here. Hello everyone.

LiamFan! · December 22nd, 2005, 12:58 AM

Don't think you have to be gay to appreciate a good kiss, no matter who it's between!

(Oh, and hello!)

janni2525 · December 22nd, 2005, 04:18 PM

Ok. I know what you mean. A kiss says so much.

Wolf_angel · December 26th, 2005, 11:10 PM

There is many ways to answer this one....but I think Life is what makes my day! Yet a good long thorough kiss from my honey sure makes it better! LOL
Have a great day!

mummy · June 12th, 2008, 06:33 AM

Hi friends what i do to turn him on is that i get dressed very nicely and walk around him.....and try to tease him to grab attention

TammyWOW · June 12th, 2008, 02:51 PM

But the question wasn't about turning him on...

February 28th, 2004, 12:24 PM	#17
MintyFemme2 Registered User Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: CA Posts: 571	Well I might as well jump in. Flowers for no reason... if I have to stare at the flowers or hit my partner over the head and drag her wallet out of her pocket to pay for them that don't count If there is a man reading this to get turned on he picked the wrong post Psst Tammy I though catgirl meant she seeing a man get excited over a "honey do" list __________________ " Life is what you make of it"

April 14th, 2004, 06:47 PM	#18
Raine Southern Belle w/Attitude Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Morganton, NC Posts: 7	Laying my head on his shoulder, or vice versa. Holding hands across the table. Him holding me when I'm sleeping, or just sitting on the couch together watching TV. Him braiding/brushing/washing my hair for me. Being able to fit in my "skinny" clothes & feeling all sexy. __________________ A girl does what her parents tell her. A lady does what society tells her. A woman makes her own choices. 0+

April 15th, 2004, 11:43 AM	#19
brede my new motorcycle Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 574	I needed time to think about this one! LOL! Hmmm, what does that say about me? The biggest turn on for me is loving care, compassion and intellect. To me love making starts in the morning when he makes coffee and brings it to me. I am very lucky to have a SO that is constantly mindful of the little things. I am so very spoiled! Physically? Gregrr's total comfort of being in his body. He's a nudist at heart, so I always see him in various stages of nakedness. And, when he gently touches me.... well, I am his. When I gained so much weight (a new experience for me), I did not feel sexy at all. He was very reassuring and said that he wasn't making love to a body. He was making love with the person that I am. He's a keeper! __________________ I wanted to be a pirate, but I couldn't grow a beard and rum makes me giggle.

April 15th, 2004, 04:32 PM	#20
LiamFan! Member Join Date: Feb 2001 Posts: 2,048	Sure sounds like it, brede! I think if I shared in this folder, it would scare most of my constituency. Oh wait...I don't have a constituency. __________________ Love is never defeated, and I could add, the history of Ireland proves it. -- Pope John Paul II

April 15th, 2004, 07:18 PM	#21
IRISH_EYES_99 Member Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: in the state of confusion :) Posts: 3,524	rofl LiamFan Oh! Come on share __________________ Smiles are contagious. It's ok to pass them on. *

February 27th, 2004, 05:45 PM	#16
lilithdelmonte Registered User Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: New York Posts: 42	When he looks me in the eyes and tells me how sexy and desirable I am to him.

April 16th, 2004, 04:12 PM	#22
brede my new motorcycle Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 574	Since you don't have a constiuency, you really should share LiamFan!! __________________ I wanted to be a pirate, but I couldn't grow a beard and rum makes me giggle.

April 16th, 2004, 07:13 PM	#23
Savannah Student of the Earth Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Western Australia Posts: 48	Confidence turns me on. many men like the " idea" of a strong, independent woman, but in reality they are running scared. so a man that has confidence and doesn't feel threatened by it is a huge turn on for me __________________ "there are no impossible dreams, just our limited perception of what is possible..."

April 17th, 2004, 06:11 PM	#24
brede my new motorcycle Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 574	As an old activist, I agree about confidence. Gregrr and I have been together for years and we reversed roles for 8 years. Since I have my MA, I found a better paying job with benefits. He was not bothered about it at all and would even do research for me. He would also come to my office and volunteer his time and expertise to fix things up and do things that supported the entire agency. __________________ I wanted to be a pirate, but I couldn't grow a beard and rum makes me giggle.

December 21st, 2005, 12:57 AM	#25
janni2525 Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 29	What turns me on. Basically what I find that turns me on is watching 2 women kissing. I mean passionately kissing each other. Not like in the porn movies. I mean that emotions show through the act of kissing. There are fake kisses and there are those look at us kisses, but the real kisses are those that show like they are actually flying standing up. I like that. By the way I'm Gay and this is why I'm saying this. So far these message boards are great. I'm glad I came here. Hello everyone.

December 22nd, 2005, 12:58 AM	#26
LiamFan! Member Join Date: Feb 2001 Posts: 2,048	Don't think you have to be gay to appreciate a good kiss, no matter who it's between! (Oh, and hello!) __________________ Love is never defeated, and I could add, the history of Ireland proves it. -- Pope John Paul II

December 22nd, 2005, 04:18 PM	#27
janni2525 Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 29	What turns me on. Ok. I know what you mean. A kiss says so much.

December 26th, 2005, 11:10 PM	#28
Wolf_angel A survivor of chaos Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Where my heart is Posts: 3,147	Wooooooohoooooo There is many ways to answer this one....but I think Life is what makes my day! Yet a good long thorough kiss from my honey sure makes it better! LOL Have a great day! __________________ May you walk in the shadow of the Great Spirit~To help others is a special gift we can either give or take~The more you give the more you receive~

June 12th, 2008, 06:33 AM	#29
mummy Registered User Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 1	what i can do to turn him on Hi friends what i do to turn him on is that i get dressed very nicely and walk around him.....and try to tease him to grab attention

June 12th, 2008, 02:51 PM	#30
TammyWOW WOW Forum Coordinator Join Date: Feb 2001 Posts: 271	But the question wasn't about turning him on...