Is sex.....? - Page 2

unknown-ml · February 17th, 2011, 02:32 AM

Ive got news for you moniker. according to my psycologist, i dont have to love myself to be loved. and if you have never had sex before it will hurt. and everyone talks about it like sex is the greatest activity in the world, and its not.

unknown-ml · February 20th, 2011, 10:56 PM

moniker in my religion i cant have sex until marriage. i have read articles and first time sex will hurt. my psycologist said that i dont have to love myself to be loved. how do you love yourself anyway? and women who jump from bed to bed with just anyone, is a slut in my opinion. men just want sex and not a commitment.

Jennifer23 · February 20th, 2011, 11:31 PM

Unknown, some men actually do want to make a commitment. You can't paint a broad brush here. And I'm still hoping that things will change for the better for you.

unknown-ml · February 21st, 2011, 02:25 AM

jennifer, have you ever dated? been kissed? married? had kids? i have never done any of those things because a stroke left half of my face sunk in and men want a pretty woman to hang on their arm for commitment, but when you look like me all they want is sex no commitment. and since i cant change my face, things wont get better for me.

patricia67 · February 21st, 2011, 05:49 AM

Well, I normally wouldn't respond to a private subject like this ......

Not being married or ones religion hasn't got anything to do with it all unknown-ml! I'm a Catholic and in a relationship for over 20 years. Two daughter, 15 & 3 ...... and I think our dear Lord or whatever it is up there didn't give this to me for nothing! If one loves the other a small piece of paper doesn't make you a better or worse christian or whatever. One commits to their significant (?) other and if one does with all their heart and soul marriage isn't neccasary to convince the BIG GUY your a great person. Sex should always be shared with a person you love and sometimes it last for over 20 years and sometimes not even more then a year ..... but always feal love in your heart when you do have it!!! But having physical pain when one does have it isn't good ... go and see a doctor!

All the best,

Patricia

unknown-ml · February 21st, 2011, 01:25 PM

well patricia, there is a book you need to read, its called the Holy Bible but before you do that you need to get on your knees and ask God (not the big guy) to save you.

Jennifer23 · February 21st, 2011, 07:29 PM

I've actually read The Koran too - the whole book. I think a lot of Americans would be very surprised to see the similarities between The Bible and The Koran. Muslims have the same God that Judeo Christians do, just with a different name. And there's nothing I can offer to help you, but praying is a good thing.

unknown-ml · February 22nd, 2011, 01:50 PM

the koran did not come from God, there is only one God

Jennifer23 · February 22nd, 2011, 04:48 PM

Exactly right! There is ONLY one God. That's what I was saying. So, whether someone prays in English, Spanish, or Arabic, they're all praying to the same God.

unknown-ml · February 25th, 2011, 05:35 AM

Jennifer23 · February 25th, 2011, 07:05 PM

Yeah, Unknown. Once you get into Hinduism, it's totally different with multiple Gods.
I just believe in one.

unknown-ml · February 26th, 2011, 02:38 AM

I am Baptist so I believe in one God also and I believe that there is only one Bible.

unknown-ml · February 26th, 2011, 02:42 AM

I think I am just going to turn lesbo, men dont want a relationship they just want sex

Jennifer23 · February 26th, 2011, 09:54 PM

Unknown, there are a lot of people in the World that believe in God, and not many are Baptists. But one of my favorite people in the World is a Baptist, and perhaps the most honest of all our Presidents . . . Jimmy Carter.

unknown-ml · February 27th, 2011, 01:48 AM

February 21st, 2011, 05:49 AM	#20
patricia67 Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: netherlands Posts: 4	just my opinion ..... Well, I normally wouldn't respond to a private subject like this ...... Not being married or ones religion hasn't got anything to do with it all unknown-ml! I'm a Catholic and in a relationship for over 20 years. Two daughter, 15 & 3 ...... and I think our dear Lord or whatever it is up there didn't give this to me for nothing! If one loves the other a small piece of paper doesn't make you a better or worse christian or whatever. One commits to their significant (?) other and if one does with all their heart and soul marriage isn't neccasary to convince the BIG GUY your a great person. Sex should always be shared with a person you love and sometimes it last for over 20 years and sometimes not even more then a year ..... but always feal love in your heart when you do have it!!! But having physical pain when one does have it isn't good ... go and see a doctor! All the best, Patricia __________________ patricia

February 17th, 2011, 02:32 AM	#16
unknown-ml Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 71	Ive got news for you moniker. according to my psycologist, i dont have to love myself to be loved. and if you have never had sex before it will hurt. and everyone talks about it like sex is the greatest activity in the world, and its not.

February 20th, 2011, 10:56 PM	#17
unknown-ml Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 71	moniker in my religion i cant have sex until marriage. i have read articles and first time sex will hurt. my psycologist said that i dont have to love myself to be loved. how do you love yourself anyway? and women who jump from bed to bed with just anyone, is a slut in my opinion. men just want sex and not a commitment.

February 20th, 2011, 11:31 PM	#18
Jennifer23 Jennifer23 Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,187	Unknown, some men actually do want to make a commitment. You can't paint a broad brush here. And I'm still hoping that things will change for the better for you.

February 21st, 2011, 02:25 AM	#19
unknown-ml Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 71	jennifer, have you ever dated? been kissed? married? had kids? i have never done any of those things because a stroke left half of my face sunk in and men want a pretty woman to hang on their arm for commitment, but when you look like me all they want is sex no commitment. and since i cant change my face, things wont get better for me.

February 21st, 2011, 01:25 PM	#21
unknown-ml Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 71	well patricia, there is a book you need to read, its called the Holy Bible but before you do that you need to get on your knees and ask God (not the big guy) to save you.

February 21st, 2011, 07:29 PM	#22
Jennifer23 Jennifer23 Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,187	I've actually read The Koran too - the whole book. I think a lot of Americans would be very surprised to see the similarities between The Bible and The Koran. Muslims have the same God that Judeo Christians do, just with a different name. And there's nothing I can offer to help you, but praying is a good thing.

February 22nd, 2011, 01:50 PM	#23
unknown-ml Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 71	the koran did not come from God, there is only one God

February 22nd, 2011, 04:48 PM	#24
Jennifer23 Jennifer23 Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,187	Exactly right! There is ONLY one God. That's what I was saying. So, whether someone prays in English, Spanish, or Arabic, they're all praying to the same God.

February 25th, 2011, 05:35 AM	#25
unknown-ml Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 71	ok

February 25th, 2011, 07:05 PM	#26
Jennifer23 Jennifer23 Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,187	Yeah, Unknown. Once you get into Hinduism, it's totally different with multiple Gods. I just believe in one.

February 26th, 2011, 02:38 AM	#27
unknown-ml Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 71	I am Baptist so I believe in one God also and I believe that there is only one Bible.

February 26th, 2011, 02:42 AM	#28
unknown-ml Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 71	I think I am just going to turn lesbo, men dont want a relationship they just want sex

February 26th, 2011, 09:54 PM	#29
Jennifer23 Jennifer23 Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,187	Unknown, there are a lot of people in the World that believe in God, and not many are Baptists. But one of my favorite people in the World is a Baptist, and perhaps the most honest of all our Presidents . . . Jimmy Carter.

February 27th, 2011, 01:48 AM	#30
unknown-ml Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 71	ok