August 16th, 2011, 05:13 PM | #16 |
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Sounds like she thrives off your temper and etc. So deflate her wee balloon. By not reacting as she expects you too. Then just walk away. Hope this helps as it was meant too. Hugs
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August 22nd, 2011, 02:59 PM | #17 |
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im 27 shes 31
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August 22nd, 2011, 10:16 PM | #18 |
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Hey Luv! I think there could just be a jealousy thing here - on her part. Like I said before, just grit your teeth and compliment her. Believe me, you'll be walking away from her smiling, and she'll be pissed.
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February 18th, 2012, 08:52 PM | #19 |
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I know how you feel. I hate my brother's wife. She is an absolute bitch to my mother, she is a moody, ignorant stuck up gold digger. I just feel like no one else sees it. My brother hardly contacts my mother since he married her. They live 300 miles away and my mum is lucky if she sees them twice a year, usually for less than 48 hours each time. So you are not alone in disliking your sister in law
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February 19th, 2012, 10:01 AM | #20 |
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No but you can take the negativity away by saying a good thing and walking away. It throws them for a loop and leaves you smiling as well as leaving them speechless. Hope this helps as it was meant too.
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February 23rd, 2012, 06:39 PM | #21 |
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You can pick your friends but cant pick your family. I wish it were the other way around sometimes - I have similar situations too!
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February 26th, 2012, 08:03 PM | #22 |
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I have no comment on this matter.. tyvm
(Dac has left the building)
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February 28th, 2012, 09:16 AM | #23 |
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LOL you are funny DACD! LOL
/e goes and duct tapes Dacd to my side LOL Hugs
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February 28th, 2012, 06:34 PM | #24 |
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LOL Duct tape is better than staple gun!!!
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February 28th, 2012, 08:09 PM | #25 |
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Hmmmm LOL <WEG> Ok maybe but have to try it maybe LOL Hugs
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February 28th, 2012, 08:42 PM | #26 |
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No!! Staple Gun could mean surgery.. LOL
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February 29th, 2012, 08:31 AM | #27 |
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Dagnabbit! LOL
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July 18th, 2012, 04:19 AM | #28 |
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Don't worry about what she says... Instead say what you feel like saying to her but with maturity and always speak with gentle words (sarcastically is ok). For example my sis in law always talks to me as if I can't handle my baby. She'll say, "what happen anytime by baby cry" like if they don't cry to her to. So I just say, " oh don't worry, are you bothered by my baby's cry?" (though I know that's not the case). At least I'm trying to let her speak why she does that?
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