The "F" word - Page 3

Ojibwe · July 1st, 2012, 09:50 PM

You girls are RIGHT, STRONG, AND WORTHY. You're all headed in the right direction. AND as one of you ladies said, just because you're reduced to tears, doesnt mean you lost the argument. Whereas women tend to show their defeat or weakness all over their face, men just can't. Instead they lash out. So... often when you get a strong or overbearing reaction out of a man on these topics, it's because you HAVE proved your point already. lol It's funny how they work that way. Alot of women are intimidated by the overconfidence and condecendence of men towards women, but the truth is, they're so easy to read that way. So you girls keep putting your foot down and the bottom line is.....if something bothers you, you have the right to state your opinion on it. Period. How many assholes have you heard put their two cents in that didnt even know what the hell they were talking about? So why in the HELL cant you just because it's a "touchy subject".

Jennifer23 · July 2nd, 2012, 11:10 PM

Danielle, I agree with you. But, there are so many cool and caring guys out there. We can be a-holes as women, too. I think that it's up to both men and women to find the situation that works for both. I have disagreements with my bf, but he's not disrespectful and we end up letting it go. For those of both sexes that can't do that, then just move on to somebody else.

Ojibwe · July 3rd, 2012, 02:49 PM

Yea, your right, jenn. And i was refering to assholes as just ppl in general. We can all be assholes. lol But yes there are lots of good men out there. I believe we both have one, luckily. But this particular post mainly refers to the crappy ones. And assholes in general, lol. Cause there's so many ppl put off by the subject of femanism, and femanist or not, woman or man, ppl should be able to state their opinions and observations without ridicule. Especially not having to be brought to tears! Geez, ya know?

Jennifer23 · July 4th, 2012, 10:34 PM

Gotcha.

Jennifer23 · June 24th, 2013, 06:51 PM

Words are just words until they are backed up by mean actions.

July 1st, 2012, 09:50 PM	#31
Ojibwe Member Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Missouri Posts: 15	You girls are RIGHT, STRONG, AND WORTHY. You're all headed in the right direction. AND as one of you ladies said, just because you're reduced to tears, doesnt mean you lost the argument. Whereas women tend to show their defeat or weakness all over their face, men just can't. Instead they lash out. So... often when you get a strong or overbearing reaction out of a man on these topics, it's because you HAVE proved your point already. lol It's funny how they work that way. Alot of women are intimidated by the overconfidence and condecendence of men towards women, but the truth is, they're so easy to read that way. So you girls keep putting your foot down and the bottom line is.....if something bothers you, you have the right to state your opinion on it. Period. How many assholes have you heard put their two cents in that didnt even know what the hell they were talking about? So why in the HELL cant you just because it's a "touchy subject".

July 2nd, 2012, 11:10 PM	#32
Jennifer23 Jennifer23 Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,187	Danielle, I agree with you. But, there are so many cool and caring guys out there. We can be a-holes as women, too. I think that it's up to both men and women to find the situation that works for both. I have disagreements with my bf, but he's not disrespectful and we end up letting it go. For those of both sexes that can't do that, then just move on to somebody else.

July 3rd, 2012, 02:49 PM	#33
Ojibwe Member Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Missouri Posts: 15	Yea, your right, jenn. And i was refering to assholes as just ppl in general. We can all be assholes. lol But yes there are lots of good men out there. I believe we both have one, luckily. But this particular post mainly refers to the crappy ones. And assholes in general, lol. Cause there's so many ppl put off by the subject of femanism, and femanist or not, woman or man, ppl should be able to state their opinions and observations without ridicule. Especially not having to be brought to tears! Geez, ya know?

July 4th, 2012, 10:34 PM	#34
Jennifer23 Jennifer23 Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,187	Gotcha.

June 24th, 2013, 06:51 PM	#35
Jennifer23 Jennifer23 Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,187	Words are just words until they are backed up by mean actions.