What turns you on???? - Page 4

Flygal · November 14th, 2008, 10:47 PM

I feel the correct person can turn you on and it does not matter what she/he do. If the chemistry is right your ON all the time....

PoohsBigSister · November 15th, 2008, 11:05 AM

Amen to that!!

eclectic · December 15th, 2008, 01:36 AM

different things turn me on. Sometimes it is completely sexual - for example watching porn does it for me every time, even if I don't want it to. Feeling good about myself helps me feel sexy. I have had lust objects in the past who could turn me on just with a look. A man being confident and competent turns me on. Listening to my baby give a lecture can do it, showing off his knowledge and debating skills and intelligence.

marcia · April 8th, 2009, 08:39 AM

knowing he respect me not matter what.

candygirl1030 · May 3rd, 2009, 09:22 AM

Funny years ago saying something like a sweet long kiss or a slight touch would turn me on. Now I have to say that when I see that my partner has cleaned the kitchen or the kids are not around turns me on. lol

LofSandra · July 23rd, 2009, 10:34 AM

For me it's a certain look or a certain touch, a nice perfume, etc. My BF gets turned on when I put on my sexy stockings & tights for him. He really likes that and I really start to enjoy that kind of clothing.

NotsLexy · August 21st, 2010, 01:43 AM

For me it starts with the communication. i want to talk how was your day? at first then into deep things like wow did you see the how big the moon was last night. Kind talk. Then the looks like i would love for him to give me because I have gotten dress up and made up and would love for him to look and say damn baby your hot as hell. unlike what i do get the look you look good and then he goes back to what he was doing before hand. Because it pisses my off to have done all this work on hair makeup cloths shoes nails toes all those things that he likes to see and tells you hey why dont you ever do those thing anymore? And then i am suppose to tell him whats going on because he says he failed mind reading 101. You know as women we take the time to notice what they like and dont like. and their facial expressions and since when things are wrong with them. but have to turn around and tell them whats going on is just not right because they dont want to take the time or make the effort to do so. And you would think after so many years together that the other person would know these things about you. That would totally turn me on if he/ or she since we are not all in heterosexual relationships would just do that. Then remember something that i like to do and lets go do it. Not say oh i am sorry i thought about it but i just didnt get around to it. At this point in my life at age 38 everything is working right. i want to be touched kissed read to yes all the fairy tale stuff but when i was younger and things like sex had to be worked at i gave him the things he wanted most. And i know life is not fair. But damn it. it should be at least some point in time. ok ok so sorry for the rant but i am so glad to have found this place and you girls to share all this with.

georgie · November 30th, 2010, 09:21 AM

What turns me on is just thinking of the guy I love. Not my husband.

georgie · November 30th, 2010, 09:23 AM

Hey, hey go for it.

Jennifer23 · December 26th, 2010, 02:01 PM

I love it when my boyfriend looks at me naked and says that I have a great body! And I don't have big breasts! LOL.

JANE20/20 · February 14th, 2011, 03:36 AM

I would like for the man that I am interested in..... to initially take the time necessary to get to know me....to care enough to find out who I am as a person....before trying to get me into bed...to know that he loves, cares, understands, respects me...while making me feel that he truly desires me sexually and shows me when the time is right......

A slow dance while he whispers something sexy in my ear....his voice is deep, he has a slight spanish accent.....it's a warm summer night...music is playing softly in the background....it's a secluded area....the sky is clear, the moon is full...as we move together....he backs me against the wall....and starts to kiss my neck....I can feel the soft whiskers of his mustache and beard gently touching my skin....he starts kissing me slowly and deeply....his lips, tongue are soft and hungry.....while his hands are underneath my dress...sliding up the sides of my thighs to my waist....and off comes the pretty lace panties....then he gets down on his knees and.........

Anyway.....that's some of what turns me on.....Whew!.....Jane20/20....

tbjtt · February 8th, 2012, 12:34 AM

I can tell you that all women are not the same down there were it counts.There are tite,firm,not so firm and just flat bad.Men need a good women, and women need a good man. I beleive in a trial run b4 marrige.

Wolf_angel · February 8th, 2012, 05:46 AM

Btdt now I just want to be happy safe and free.

Restless · February 29th, 2012, 01:44 AM

Hi currently I'm quite turned on by my boss. I think it's because I don't know him tat well n it seems exciting. When I first dated my husband, de mere act of caressing each other's palms was a turn on.... Lol. I wish I didn't hv such feelings for my boss.

annie1 · October 11th, 2012, 04:44 AM

When I fantisize , being kissed in my hot spot my neck.foreplay .The right time and place the right person just the thought of himtouching me I dont think my body could handle it not my husband .I get turned on by his voice watching him speak .Oh thinking about him.Talking about him ,but our love is forbidden nothing wrong with dreaming or is there???

November 15th, 2008, 11:05 AM	#47
PoohsBigSister Long Live WOW!! Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: CO Posts: 1,791	Amen to that!! __________________ "Life is a flower of which love is the honey." Victor Hugo

August 21st, 2010, 01:43 AM	#52
NotsLexy Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Georgia Posts: 3	For me it starts with the communication. i want to talk how was your day? at first then into deep things like wow did you see the how big the moon was last night. Kind talk. Then the looks like i would love for him to give me because I have gotten dress up and made up and would love for him to look and say damn baby your hot as hell. unlike what i do get the look you look good and then he goes back to what he was doing before hand. Because it pisses my off to have done all this work on hair makeup cloths shoes nails toes all those things that he likes to see and tells you hey why dont you ever do those thing anymore? And then i am suppose to tell him whats going on because he says he failed mind reading 101. You know as women we take the time to notice what they like and dont like. and their facial expressions and since when things are wrong with them. but have to turn around and tell them whats going on is just not right because they dont want to take the time or make the effort to do so. And you would think after so many years together that the other person would know these things about you. That would totally turn me on if he/ or she since we are not all in heterosexual relationships would just do that. Then remember something that i like to do and lets go do it. Not say oh i am sorry i thought about it but i just didnt get around to it. At this point in my life at age 38 everything is working right. i want to be touched kissed read to yes all the fairy tale stuff but when i was younger and things like sex had to be worked at i gave him the things he wanted most. And i know life is not fair. But damn it. it should be at least some point in time. ok ok so sorry for the rant but i am so glad to have found this place and you girls to share all this with. __________________ Hot as a fever Rattling bones I could just taste it Taste it

February 8th, 2012, 05:46 AM	#58
Wolf_angel A survivor of chaos Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Where my heart is Posts: 3,147	Btdt now I just want to be happy safe and free. __________________ May you walk in the shadow of the Great Spirit~To help others is a special gift we can either give or take~The more you give the more you receive~

November 14th, 2008, 10:47 PM	#46
Flygal Live, Laugh and Love.... Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 19	I feel the correct person can turn you on and it does not matter what she/he do. If the chemistry is right your ON all the time....

December 15th, 2008, 01:36 AM	#48
eclectic Registered User Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 4	different things turn me on. Sometimes it is completely sexual - for example watching porn does it for me every time, even if I don't want it to. Feeling good about myself helps me feel sexy. I have had lust objects in the past who could turn me on just with a look. A man being confident and competent turns me on. Listening to my baby give a lecture can do it, showing off his knowledge and debating skills and intelligence.

April 8th, 2009, 08:39 AM	#49
marcia Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 5	knowing he respect me not matter what.

May 3rd, 2009, 09:22 AM	#50
candygirl1030 Member Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Ithaca, NY Posts: 45	Funny years ago saying something like a sweet long kiss or a slight touch would turn me on. Now I have to say that when I see that my partner has cleaned the kitchen or the kids are not around turns me on. lol

July 23rd, 2009, 10:34 AM	#51
LofSandra Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 17	For me it's a certain look or a certain touch, a nice perfume, etc. My BF gets turned on when I put on my sexy stockings & tights for him. He really likes that and I really start to enjoy that kind of clothing.

November 30th, 2010, 09:21 AM	#53
georgie Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Somewhere I'd rather not be Posts: 112	What turns me on is just thinking of the guy I love. Not my husband.

November 30th, 2010, 09:23 AM	#54
georgie Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Somewhere I'd rather not be Posts: 112	Hey, hey go for it.

December 26th, 2010, 02:01 PM	#55
Jennifer23 Jennifer23 Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,187	I love it when my boyfriend looks at me naked and says that I have a great body! And I don't have big breasts! LOL.

February 14th, 2011, 03:36 AM	#56
JANE20/20 Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 67	I would like for the man that I am interested in..... to initially take the time necessary to get to know me....to care enough to find out who I am as a person....before trying to get me into bed...to know that he loves, cares, understands, respects me...while making me feel that he truly desires me sexually and shows me when the time is right...... A slow dance while he whispers something sexy in my ear....his voice is deep, he has a slight spanish accent.....it's a warm summer night...music is playing softly in the background....it's a secluded area....the sky is clear, the moon is full...as we move together....he backs me against the wall....and starts to kiss my neck....I can feel the soft whiskers of his mustache and beard gently touching my skin....he starts kissing me slowly and deeply....his lips, tongue are soft and hungry.....while his hands are underneath my dress...sliding up the sides of my thighs to my waist....and off comes the pretty lace panties....then he gets down on his knees and......... Anyway.....that's some of what turns me on.....Whew!.....Jane20/20....

February 8th, 2012, 12:34 AM	#57
tbjtt Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 2	I can tell you that all women are not the same down there were it counts.There are tite,firm,not so firm and just flat bad.Men need a good women, and women need a good man. I beleive in a trial run b4 marrige.

February 29th, 2012, 01:44 AM	#59
Restless Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 4	Hi currently I'm quite turned on by my boss. I think it's because I don't know him tat well n it seems exciting. When I first dated my husband, de mere act of caressing each other's palms was a turn on.... Lol. I wish I didn't hv such feelings for my boss.

October 11th, 2012, 04:44 AM	#60
annie1 Member Join Date: Oct 2012 Posts: 17	When I fantisize , being kissed in my hot spot my neck.foreplay .The right time and place the right person just the thought of himtouching me I dont think my body could handle it not my husband .I get turned on by his voice watching him speak .Oh thinking about him.Talking about him ,but our love is forbidden nothing wrong with dreaming or is there???