Likes Women and Penis Vibrators.

Sassysam · January 26th, 2011, 04:45 PM

Here's a question maybe someone can give some opinions on.

If a woman claims to like women, but also loves the feeling of a penis vibrator, is that really considered a lesbian? Or is it bisexual?

If she never dates men and is never with men sexually, but she has a penis sex toy and I'm mean a real one exactly like this.

What's the deal? Do women feel jealous if the partner uses a vibrator like that? Maybe is it a physical insticnt to like the feel of a penis? Is this n reason to be concerned, maybe a regular vibrator not shaped like a penis would be more appropriate.

These questions might sound silly, but I would like to hear your opinions. Thank you.

Jennifer23 · January 28th, 2011, 09:07 PM

Sassy, I have no idea! I have a vibrator that I use when my boyfriend's away, but that is a good question.

Tami · January 28th, 2011, 09:29 PM

I am a lesbian and have been with my wife for 7yrs (married for 2) and we have a penis vibrator and we love it. just b/c u say you're a lesbian but like ur vibrator does not mean ur not. if u have no sexual attraction to men and u do women...then ur a lesbian. the female g-spot is in the same general area no matter if u'd prefer men or women to find yours and u have to hit it somehow lol

moniker · February 11th, 2011, 09:06 PM

A penis-shaped vibrator, especially ones with all the veins, provides a lot of stimulation that a rounded tube just won't. I bought myself a Lelo vibrator which was rather expensive. It has some neat bells and whistles, like seven different vibration settings with two vibrating parts (one in the tip, one in the base...they can be set to go simultaneously or one at a time), recharges, is made from medical-grade silicone (washes easy, won't hold bacteria and retains heat), and the petal design provides stimulation...

...or so I thought while I was in the store. Despite Lelo being super silky to the touch, the petals actually kinda...hurt. I wish I had bought myself a penis-shaped vibrator, I really, really do.

In other words, it feels better...that doesn't mean a woman is no longer a lesbian just because her vibrator is smoother and gentler on her!

JANE20/20 · March 1st, 2011, 12:35 AM

This is really interesting conversation....I don't own any adults toys....and reading this...now I'm thinking about buying a very real looking and feeling penis vibrator.....and name it after the man that I want......WOW!....

PinkAmelia · March 19th, 2011, 07:02 PM

Just because I own a penis (or at least close) shaped vibrator doesn't mean that I'm attracted to most men. Nor does it mean that I find a penis attractive. Nor that it turns me on. I agree with what someone else said. The shape of your vibrator doesnmt change your sexuality. It is what it is. A toy.

vtravka · May 30th, 2011, 06:35 PM

Isn't it interesting that there are no vibrators or other sex toys
for lesbians in the shape of long strong fingers. Be it one finger
or more or a hand. That would be more interesting. As a lesbian
I wouldn't mind using it in my bed. Does anyone know of any?

lovelopez · August 12th, 2012, 10:18 PM

Funny Ed, but this is some serious stuff..I had a friend whose husband was apparently on the down low. People kept telling her that he was sleeping with men. You would never believe it by looking at this man. Lo and behold, they got married. The friend became pregnant because that is what most married couples want. My friend didn't think to use a condom with her husband. Several months after giving birth, my friend passed away from AIDS, given to her by her husband. Then he admitted to being on the down low because he said he was sorry!!! Sorry my Ass

Jennifer23 · August 15th, 2012, 09:31 PM

That is serious stuff, Love.

January 26th, 2011, 04:45 PM	#1
Sassysam Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 35	Likes Women and Penis Vibrators. Here's a question maybe someone can give some opinions on. If a woman claims to like women, but also loves the feeling of a penis vibrator, is that really considered a lesbian? Or is it bisexual? If she never dates men and is never with men sexually, but she has a penis sex toy and I'm mean a real one exactly like this. What's the deal? Do women feel jealous if the partner uses a vibrator like that? Maybe is it a physical insticnt to like the feel of a penis? Is this n reason to be concerned, maybe a regular vibrator not shaped like a penis would be more appropriate. These questions might sound silly, but I would like to hear your opinions. Thank you. __________________ Geminis rule! Last edited by Sysop; June 6th, 2011 at 02:01 AM. Reason: link removed

May 30th, 2011, 06:35 PM	#7
vtravka Member Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 8	Hmmmmmm Isn't it interesting that there are no vibrators or other sex toys for lesbians in the shape of long strong fingers. Be it one finger or more or a hand. That would be more interesting. As a lesbian I wouldn't mind using it in my bed. Does anyone know of any?

January 28th, 2011, 09:07 PM	#2
Jennifer23 Jennifer23 Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,187	Sassy, I have no idea! I have a vibrator that I use when my boyfriend's away, but that is a good question.

January 28th, 2011, 09:29 PM	#3
Tami Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: El Paso, TX Posts: 5	I am a lesbian and have been with my wife for 7yrs (married for 2) and we have a penis vibrator and we love it. just b/c u say you're a lesbian but like ur vibrator does not mean ur not. if u have no sexual attraction to men and u do women...then ur a lesbian. the female g-spot is in the same general area no matter if u'd prefer men or women to find yours and u have to hit it somehow lol

February 11th, 2011, 09:06 PM	#4
moniker Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Posts: 44	A penis-shaped vibrator, especially ones with all the veins, provides a lot of stimulation that a rounded tube just won't. I bought myself a Lelo vibrator which was rather expensive. It has some neat bells and whistles, like seven different vibration settings with two vibrating parts (one in the tip, one in the base...they can be set to go simultaneously or one at a time), recharges, is made from medical-grade silicone (washes easy, won't hold bacteria and retains heat), and the petal design provides stimulation... ...or so I thought while I was in the store. Despite Lelo being super silky to the touch, the petals actually kinda...hurt. I wish I had bought myself a penis-shaped vibrator, I really, really do. In other words, it feels better...that doesn't mean a woman is no longer a lesbian just because her vibrator is smoother and gentler on her!

March 1st, 2011, 12:35 AM	#5
JANE20/20 Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 67	This is really interesting conversation....I don't own any adults toys....and reading this...now I'm thinking about buying a very real looking and feeling penis vibrator.....and name it after the man that I want......WOW!....

March 19th, 2011, 07:02 PM	#6
PinkAmelia Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 22	Just because I own a penis (or at least close) shaped vibrator doesn't mean that I'm attracted to most men. Nor does it mean that I find a penis attractive. Nor that it turns me on. I agree with what someone else said. The shape of your vibrator doesnmt change your sexuality. It is what it is. A toy.

August 12th, 2012, 10:18 PM	#8
lovelopez Member Join Date: Aug 2012 Posts: 1	Funny Ed, but this is some serious stuff..I had a friend whose husband was apparently on the down low. People kept telling her that he was sleeping with men. You would never believe it by looking at this man. Lo and behold, they got married. The friend became pregnant because that is what most married couples want. My friend didn't think to use a condom with her husband. Several months after giving birth, my friend passed away from AIDS, given to her by her husband. Then he admitted to being on the down low because he said he was sorry!!! Sorry my Ass

August 15th, 2012, 09:31 PM	#9
Jennifer23 Jennifer23 Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,187	That is serious stuff, Love.