Unhappy

Sunnyone68 · April 24th, 2012, 10:58 AM

Hello everyone, I really don't know where to start, I am just wanting to find somewhere were i can express my feelings with out being judge.

I have been married for 20 years to a man I love, but I have not been truly happy for a long time.

Between to two of use I raised 5 children, he had custody of his two daughters and I had three boys when we got together. Ages 3 month to 8 yrs old.

His job had him gone alot. So it was alot like raising them alone.

They are all grown now. And I am feeling very unhappy with him and my life.

Have to go now will write more late.

DACDjr · April 24th, 2012, 08:38 PM

Hello Sunny... Welcome to WOW..

You are free to express what ever you want here. We do not judge. We listen and encourage to let it out. A great group of gals here have helped me and many more get through some of the roughest parts of our lives. Please explore the boards and post away.. Big shoulders and caring hearts await!

Daccie

Jennifer23 · April 24th, 2012, 08:49 PM

Sunny, I'm not even married, but we have other women here that can talk to you about your concerns. Good luck!

DACDjr · April 24th, 2012, 09:04 PM

Sonny, I am married for 16 years now.. I have 4 children with my husband.. 18-12-5-3..

I often ask myself why am I with him. Why have I stayed with him?
I don't know if it because I love him or if it because of my children..
I do know that since he has not been working (4 years now) our relationship has difficult.. Times where I can't stand to look at him or be around him. I don't know why I stay.. I love him, but I am not in love with him and have not been for awhile now.. People say it is stress talking when I say this.. I know it's not.. It is how I feel... My mom always said, if you are not happy don't stay.. Don't make yourself miserable.. But that is easier said than done..

Wolf_angel · April 25th, 2012, 06:27 AM

Sunny I see you are one busy person. Now you arent. Ok? what to do? Look into making yourself happy. How? Look into going back to school or doing a hobby. But getting out of the house is imperative. Get out and see what there is. You never know what you may find. For only you are in charge of your happiness. The others are icing on the cake. Hope this helps not meant to offend. Hugs

DACDjr · April 27th, 2012, 11:20 PM

Agreed...

Wolf_angel · April 28th, 2012, 06:50 PM

Hey Dacd are you following me? LOL GMTA ROFLMAO

April 24th, 2012, 10:58 AM	#1
Sunnyone68 Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Texas Posts: 1	Unhappy Hello everyone, I really don't know where to start, I am just wanting to find somewhere were i can express my feelings with out being judge. I have been married for 20 years to a man I love, but I have not been truly happy for a long time. Between to two of use I raised 5 children, he had custody of his two daughters and I had three boys when we got together. Ages 3 month to 8 yrs old. His job had him gone alot. So it was alot like raising them alone. They are all grown now. And I am feeling very unhappy with him and my life. Have to go now will write more late. __________________ Have a wonderful day

April 24th, 2012, 08:38 PM	#2
DACDjr Senior Memeber Join Date: May 2001 Location: Indiana Posts: 864	Hello Sunny... Welcome to WOW.. You are free to express what ever you want here. We do not judge. We listen and encourage to let it out. A great group of gals here have helped me and many more get through some of the roughest parts of our lives. Please explore the boards and post away.. Big shoulders and caring hearts await! Daccie __________________ KAP-AJS

April 24th, 2012, 09:04 PM	#4
DACDjr Senior Memeber Join Date: May 2001 Location: Indiana Posts: 864	Sonny, I am married for 16 years now.. I have 4 children with my husband.. 18-12-5-3.. I often ask myself why am I with him. Why have I stayed with him? I don't know if it because I love him or if it because of my children.. I do know that since he has not been working (4 years now) our relationship has difficult.. Times where I can't stand to look at him or be around him. I don't know why I stay.. I love him, but I am not in love with him and have not been for awhile now.. People say it is stress talking when I say this.. I know it's not.. It is how I feel... My mom always said, if you are not happy don't stay.. Don't make yourself miserable.. But that is easier said than done.. __________________ KAP-AJS

April 25th, 2012, 06:27 AM	#5
Wolf_angel A survivor of chaos Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Where my heart is Posts: 3,147	Sunny I see you are one busy person. Now you arent. Ok? what to do? Look into making yourself happy. How? Look into going back to school or doing a hobby. But getting out of the house is imperative. Get out and see what there is. You never know what you may find. For only you are in charge of your happiness. The others are icing on the cake. Hope this helps not meant to offend. Hugs __________________ May you walk in the shadow of the Great Spirit~To help others is a special gift we can either give or take~The more you give the more you receive~

April 27th, 2012, 11:20 PM	#6
DACDjr Senior Memeber Join Date: May 2001 Location: Indiana Posts: 864	Agreed... __________________ KAP-AJS

April 24th, 2012, 08:49 PM	#3
Jennifer23 Jennifer23 Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,187	Sunny, I'm not even married, but we have other women here that can talk to you about your concerns. Good luck!

April 28th, 2012, 06:50 PM	#7
Wolf_angel A survivor of chaos Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Where my heart is Posts: 3,147	Hey Dacd are you following me? LOL GMTA ROFLMAO __________________ May you walk in the shadow of the Great Spirit~To help others is a special gift we can either give or take~The more you give the more you receive~